You Might Be a Superstar

(Even If You Don’t Feel Like One)

What You Admire in Others Lives in You, Too

We’re taught to see greatness as something out there—in famous faces, in impressive talents, in people who seem to have it all together. But what if the qualities you admire in others are simply mirrors? Quiet signals pointing you back to something that’s already within?

This is the heart of what I call selfgentleness: the choice to meet yourself with gentleness, not just when you succeed, but when you forget your worth. When you’re tired, uncertain, or quietly questioning your place in the world.
That’s when it matters most.

From now on, I’ll be writing weekly—sharing one post on my blog, and a second post here on Substack where I reflect, expand, or simplify the same core message.

This week’s full post is here:
→ You Are a Superstar: A Selfgentleness Approach to Remembering Your Worth
It’s a reminder of who you truly are ( a superstar) —and why you don’t need to prove a thing to claim it.

Be selfgentle,

All love, Femke